3 goals for growth:
1. More communication with Ex-Wife.
Step 1- Break our cycle of inconsistent communication. Step 2- Be more assertive in her presence. Stop selling myself short. Step 3- Remember that the kids are our priority and that we BOTH will do whatever it takes to be a good parent.
2. Continue Consistent Positive Reinforcement in interactions with Sol
Step 1- Always check in after a tantrum, argument or fight and remind him that I love him. Step 2- Point out the good things he does on a daily basis and share with him the pride I feel when I see him doing those things. Step 3- Encourage him with courtesies. Modeling behavior is "contagious," as our book says...
3. Continue with Encouragement and Positive Role Modeling for Nara
Step 1- Point out how she makes me proud and surprises me with her knowledge on a daily basis (on days she's with me). Step 2- Point out positive things in public that portray successful women. Step 3- Continue including people in our every day lives who encourage her, inspire her, and people who she can look up to as she grows and learns.
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